This Week’s Pairing: Fire & Fracture


Hey friends,

This week’s pairing is about something close to the bone:
How we’re being pulled apart, and how we begin to come back together.


Essay 1: On Truth, Disconnection, and the Quiet Machinery of Division
On moral clarity, ideological binaries, and the quiet unraveling of trust.

“The more we lean into morality, the more fragile our conversations become. We don’t ask, ‘What do you mean?’ We brace for impact.”

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Essay 2: From Table of Truth to Open Fire
On food, fire, presence, and the power of gathering without performance.

“Wine With Pete is not a dinner party. It’s not a brand. It’s a fire. One that asks you to show up—not perform.”

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I don’t think we solve everything with one essay or one event.
But I do think we repair by showing up.
With fewer assumptions. With more fire.
And with a bit of food and wine never hurting either.

Thanks for being here.
—Pete

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